14 March 2025

It is hard to believe that five years ago yesterday Employee was sent home from work for "two weeks" to flatten the curve. That turned into over a year. Looking back on that fiasco, those of us in The Hermitage STILL question all of it. Especially those buying cases of toilet paper and creating even more panic! 

This has been such a trying week. We have done things we HATE doing, and NONE of us want to do, and feel that there should be someone else here to do them. Nevertheless, they are getting done.

Astronomer stayed up FAR too late last night. Well, into the early hours of the morning. AND she kept reporting on the eclipse! 

That led to a VERY morose morning. Everyone was dealing with mental and emotional issues. No one could get their act together AT ALL! Most were out of bed by 11 though, and after a small breakfast Chauffeur asked if anyone wanted to go for a drive. She needed to finish putting 100 miles on the carriage and it seemed as though doing that might help. And off they went...to the other side of town. Alas, there were no donkeys. Forty-two degrees must not be cold enough for them to be out of the mountains. Such is life. 

Driving to and from we tried some karaoke. Also name that tune and band. They missed one. Oh, well. They got all of the other ones! When The Partridge Family came on, singing, I Think I Love You, we were near Queen's oldest daughter's salon, so stopped in. Just for a few minutes. When the "perm" arrived, we left.

Gassed the carriage at the local thrift mega store and fueling station. Gas was only $3.29. Hmmm...Thankfully we don't have to buy it very often. We were almost at the 100 mile mark on our expedition, so Chauffeur took the carriage to be smogged. Another bane of our existence. EGADS!!! Thankfully, Disciple sent up SEVERAL pleas over this issue. Ten minutes later it was declared that the carriage passed! Chauffeur thanked the attendant, and we all got back in the carriage. As Chauffeur drove the few blocks to The Hermitage, everyone broke down. NOT just for the trial of smogging the car. Not for the trials of the week. Not for the trials of the month. NO. OH NO. The dam was broken. Things that have been hanging around in some of the minds and hearts of those in The Hermitage let go. Let go big time. Some could hardly breathe. 

We have SO MUCH to be thankful for. We are SO blessed. We have seen Gods hands in our lives. We have witnessed tender mercies. We have had many answered prayers. We know that each of us are known personally. We know we are loved. This has been a tough one lately. We thought we would grow old with someone. But it doesn't seem to be in the plan yet. We believe Queen's children love us, and hope that it isn't out of obligation. We don't believe it is, as they treat us all very well. But we get in these moods...and then it is all downhill. 

Ornithologist is still keeping an eye on the bald eagles at Big Bear. Can't believe they are covered with snow yet again! Jeez! 

Baker didn't forget Pi day, she just didn't make anything. Sadly, she didn't feel like doing that. She usually makes coconut cream, key lime and a lemon cream cheese...and an apple. Maybe next year. Maybe next week. Who knows. She is touchy right now.

We are listening to it rain outside. THAT is always a blessing. Maybe it will calm us all down.

And so, here we are with an anniversary of the "Pandemic" yesterday, Pi day today, and tomorrow is the Ides of March! Then next week we can wear green. NOT our favorite color, BUT we have Irish in our blood, so feel the need. Hopefully next week will bring some sort of normalcy and order. If that is even possible. We hope so. We NEED to get that.

And so we have come to the "Redistribution" part of the week. Hopefully they will be worth checking out. Have a great weekend...

 12 March 2025

Since Employee is retired, the days get mixed up, our thinking gets bumfuzzled, and things don't go the way they should.

Several of us woke up emotional, weepy, and just a wreck this morning. We sat around wondering what we should be doing, and not wanting to do anything, but that makes it worse.

Financier, Banker, and the Tax Woman continue to be fraught with the taxes, and what to do about the rest of it. AND then we forgot that Jessica was coming down for her own reasons, and was going to stop by. Too much for the brain. This is what Organizer has a calendar for, BUT Communicator didn't relay the message very well. In fact, with everything going on, she forgot. But they spent part of the morning on the phone with someone about finances. Then Chauffeur took them to Ye Olds PERS office, to fix things there, then came home and filed the taxes...AND tried to relax...stay calm...and get back to what is NORMAL for all of us in The Hermitage.

Jess and the kids came by, and it was WONDERFUL to see them. They are three hours away, and while that isn't a world away, we don't see them as often as we would like to. Because of our total discombobulation this week, we are embarrassed to say we didn't realize the time, didn't think normally, didn't fix them dinner, didn't do what we've been taught to do. AND feel horrible. Chef should have whipped something up. But didn't, and she feels bad. All of us feel bad. Hopefully we can fix this error in the future.

We were going over past memories and saw this post from a dozen years ago. We need to hang this somewhere. We need to read it more often. Perhaps we will print it out and Disciple will put it in her scriptures and look at it EVERY day! That would be helpful on all fronts.

Rain is expected tomorrow. DRAT! We love when we get rain, however, Board Member will be walking the whole community with another Board Member, three landscapers and about half a dozen tree people from UNLV. She can borrow Golfer's umbrella. It's HUGE! Astronomer is looking forward to seeing the Blood Full Moon eclipse tomorrow night. Clouds just won't make that work very well. Hopefully she will see part of it.

Gardner aches and is continuing to put lidocaine on her back. She is also trying to take it easy. She is pleased with all of the blooms and that the trees are starting to bud out. So many flowers are blooming, and the transplanting of some of the bulbs worked. The tulips are going to have flowers this year. The freesia are blooming, and so are many other flowers out in the yard. It is lovely.

Herpetologist was impressed with the video call from Queen's youngest son. He is staying in Daytona Beach, FL for a bit, and right outside their door...about 100 feet...is a swamp...with alligators! On the video call, he was showing her the alligator and they threw a fish down on the ground trying to get it out of the swamp...WHICH WORKED! EGADS!!! Anyway, we were happy to be on a video call, although it was fascinating.

Chauffeur still has some trials with the carriage, but hopefully that will work out.

The beginning of the year stuff is almost done, thankfully. Then we all have projects we are working on the rest of the year. Everything WILL work out. Things WILL get better. We know they will.

Thank you for coming by Jessica and bringing all the kids. So great to see everyone. I LOVE you!

 3 March 2025

Scullery Maid was busy with Kitchen Maid this morning finishing up from last night's meal with the family. Chef made corned beef, mashed potatoes, corn, and fried cabbage with onions and kielbasa sausage. She also had romain and iceberg lettuce with all the fixings; red onions, green onions, pepperoncini, craisins, fried onions, grated cheese, baby carrots, cucumbers, bacon bits, croutons, salad sprinkles, cherry tomatoes, and dressings. Baker made peach cobbler, and had ice cream/homemade whipped cream to go with it for dessert.

Building Maintainer was BUSY today. She set up the ladder and got up into the "belly of the whale" to install some insulation. It seems that 50 years ago when The Hermitage was built, in their haste, they didn't put in about 15' of insulation. Five years ago when the kitchen remodel was going on, this was noticed. NOW it is finally up! Is it perfect? Goodness NO! Sometimes perfectionism is out the door. This was one of those times. She felt it was "good" and since breathing was an issue up there, and black snot was the end result, everyone was fine with it and no one complained. Also, because no one else wants to go into "the belly of the whale!" Then she got out the drywall mud and prepared the kitchen ceiling, and bathroom area ready for texture and paint. This won't happen this week though.

The rest of the week MANY of us in The Hermitage will be BUSY, BUSY, BUSY. Chauffeur, Reader, Costumer, Prop Master, Board Member, Disciple, and others.

Someone has a teeth cleaning.

Reader and Costumer prepared for upcoming events this week. Reader was asked to read to two third grade classes, as well as a kindergarten, and a pre-k class this week as part of "Reading Week." Costumer dug out the Belle, and the Rapunzel dresses, as well as Pascal and a "pooch" who will be joining for the story time. Prop Master also got out one of the tiara's and a small cast iron skillet. Reader will be reading, obviously, Rapunzel, and Beauty and the Beast. Hopefully this will go over well.

Board Member will be attending a County Planning Meeting to fight a proposed Paint/Auto Body shop on the corner. We don't want it rezoned for that. Some of us in The Hermitage would rather have a Waffle House.

Disciple and Reader will be having some fun with the Activity Girls this week. There are also some choir practices coming up for some special events.

Gardener is pleased with all of the blooming flowers at The Hermitage! Lavender, daffodils, jonquils, iris, rosemary, violets, orchids, and the freesia are next up.

AND someone is getting their hair done!!! Maybe...that may be delayed. Ornithologist has been keeping her eyes on the Bald Eagles at Big Bear! Jackie laid three eggs; January 22nd, 25th, and 28th. She and Shadow have been sitting on the three eggs and two of them have pipped! Maybe tomorrow or the next day the third one will pip. She is SO excited to watch all this. She has been reading a LOT about bald eagles and has learned some fascinating things. She is having a lot of fun with this.

Anyway, things are happening in The Hermitage. Thankfully the wind has died down. It did blow a tree over last night.

Have a GREAT week!

 1 March 2025

Writer has a touch of scatter-brain this weekend, and it seems to have carried over to others who have been a tad loopier than normal today. Disciple had to text a friend because she couldn't remember what time Church starts tomorrow! It starts at 10. Thanks Gina!

Gardener forgot the water was running and luckily remembered after about 20 minutes. But she hadn't watered all week, so maybe that will be okay.

Chef isn't on strike, but told Chauffeur to stop at a local eatery as she wasn't preparing anything. She IS preparing a meal for The First Family Dinner tomorrow. She is fixing corned beef, mashed potatoes, corn, salad, and peach cobbler.

Board Member has been busy helping at the clubhouse. We put up new blinds in the windows, replaced several electrical outlets, and put the AC vents back in the ceiling. She helped with the blinds and outlets, surprising one of the other board members.

All of us in The Hermitage are trying to get back to "normal" or what is normal for us. After some were gone for two weeks, we've forgotten what we are supposed to be doing. Next week will be a busy one! Teeth cleaning. Meetings. Getting our hair done with our FAVORITE hairdresser! WOOHOO!!! Can't wait.

AND it is reading week next week in honor of Dr. Seuss. Reader and Educator have been asked to do something they ABSOLUTELY LOVE to do! They will be dressing up as Rapunzel and reading the Rapunzel story to two third grade classes...one of the classes Queen's grandson is in! Then the next day she will be dressing up as Belle and reading Beauty and the Beast to a Pre-K class and a Kindergarten class! When asked why they said:

They love children

They love teaching

They love reading

They want children to have a love of reading

They want the grandson to maybe see them in a different light/way

They love fairytales

They love dressing up

They rarely have interactions with people as we rarely leave The Hermitage

Reading week is special

When Employee was working in school libraries, during reading week she would put up a display of "Banned Books" in hopes students would check them out. She once tried to encourage a couple of students to check out the "Banned Books" display, and they said they "didn't want to read about musical instruments!" Palm to forehead. Too bad! They may have learned something. Nevertheless, books and reading are THE BEST! Shopper purchased four books at the DI yesterday; two for Reader and Educator to use on their outing and two because they were Fancy Nancy books, and are delightful. Not to mention we absolutely needed to add to the thousands of books we already have in The Hermitage. Organizer saw the books, shook her head, and was dumbfounded that Shopper purchased them. Organizer even questioned, "WHAT WERE YOU THINKING?!?!?!" Shopper wasn't thinking. She is just crazy when it comes to books and loses her mind. Well, it's already lost, so there's that.

Anyway, it is time for the Redistribution of our little treasure we've collected this week. Should be entertaining. Have a GREAT week. Share your light and your smiles!

 24 February 2025 Part 1

Many of us in The Hermitage took a two week trip. Yes, this is HIGHLY unusual for us. Many of us. The trip involved wildlife (yes, some of ours!), new experiences and places, food, life AND SHARK TEETH!!! WOOHOO!!!

Story in Part 2...maybe at 11.

24 February 2025 Part 2

Writer thought about “story” form, “journal” form, OR “character” form. She “over-thinks” FAR too much for the rest of us. We all just said write it. JUST write it.

So, here we go. It is rare that ANY of us actually take a vacation and go somewhere. Camper and Disciple did go to girls camp last summer, but we don’t really consider that a vacation. Maybe a “field trip” though. BUT several of us actually did go on a vacation. And adventure. Somewhere none of us had ever been before. WOOHOO!!! Destination=Myrtle Beach, SC. It is known as the "Golf Capital of the World". It has many golf courses, including championship courses, mini golf courses, and courses designed by golf legends. It is also known for shark teeth that are “predominantly found along the central stretch of Myrtle Beach, from 50th Avenue North down to 10th Avenue South.” It has 60 miles of beaches! WHOA! However, they missed the memo on global warming. Travel bags were packed for warmer weather than Meteorologist planned for. Whoopsie! Capri’s, shorts, and t-shirts were packed and never came out of the travel bag! However the long sleeved tops, jeans, flannels and jackets were worn, layered, every day. We talked to many people who assured us that the weather was quite unusual for this time of year, or ever. Go figure! We also found out that this was the “Off Season” and most places were closed! Some places were only open on Friday, Saturday and Sunday. Weird. Coming from a 24 hour town, with NO off seasons, this was weird, crazy, and somewhat unacceptable. For the most part. AND the places that were open, other than bars and a few restaurants, were closed by 6.

9 February 2025 

Our ride arrived to pick us up at 8:15. We traveled with Queen’s youngest son, his lovely wife, and their pooch, Fräulein. As a Min Pin she gets a LOT (understatement) of attention. While waiting, Social Butterfly engaged in a conversation with a couple of pilots. Then Fräulein caught the attention of another pilot. He thought she was amazing and fawned over her for quite some time. Soon it was time to board. Said pilot, who adored Fräulein, asked us to let him know when we boarded so she could come into the cockpit. So, as we boarded, the flight attendants were asked to notify the pilot. Eventually they did, but we were already seated. After all the passengers were on the plane, the pilot made an announcement, “Would passenger Fräulein please press her call button.” We did. The pilot came all the way down to our seats to see her again and visit before taking off for Charlotte, NC. THIS pilot was incredible. AND NEVER have we flown and had a landing such as this. We didn’t even know we were on the ground or when we touched ground. AMAZING! From Charlotte we flew to Myrtle Beach, SC.

10 February 2025 cloudy

The RV has been residing at a KOA. This would be our “home” away from The Hermitage for two weeks, starting on 13th. It was cloudy, but we walked all around the park for about an hour, getting all of our “steps” in by noon. Financier and Banker found a $20.00 bill on their walk! They weren’t sure if it was real, BUT it was! Ornithologist was in bird heaven! She saw cardinals (her favorite!), red-headed woodpeckers, egrets, herons, ducks AND a bald eagle right outside the RV door! HOLY MOLY!!! She was stoked! We all saw a LOT of squirrels too. Godfather’s was closed, so we ended up at Ultimate California Pizza. IF you are ever in Myrtle Beach, eat there! Great pizza. We had the meat lovers. Of course. 

11 February 2025 clouds and rain

There are two women who live at the KOA and they feed the waterfowl and squirrels several times during the week. THIS was fun as several of us have a thing for squirrels. This feeding frenzy brought a couple dozen from all over the woods. Ms. Karin made chicken and dumplings for dinner, and it was wonderful. We questioned Chef as to why this has never been cooked at The Hermitage. She had no answer. But it may happen in the future. We are staying in a darling cabin until Bobby and Karin go on their trip. The cabin is SO cute, we REALLY want one! We couldn’t get the internet to work. We were given SEVERAL choices, BUT none of them worked. The actual username and password, we found out, were never “spell checked” and the “8” should have been a “B” and an “e” should have been an “o.” Hmmm…

12 February 2025 more clouds and rain

Because we are walking from the cabin to the RV, there is NO car out front of the cabin. So the cleaning people came by…twice to clean…they didn’t know the cabin was occupied. We are beginning to wonder about things going on. BUT not complaining. The things available out west, in Walmart, as compared to out east, are lacking. However, we made do. Bobby and Chef made chili dogs! OH MY GOSH! They were SO good. 

13 February 2025 more clouds and rain

Laundress helped Karin prepare for their trip, only to find out their flight for tomorrow was canceled! Disciple prayed for a new flight to work out. AND it did…We found out at noon they needed to be at the airport at 4! To say the race was on and that the dashing about began is an understatement. BUT they made it. Chauffeur did have to turn around and revisit the airport as a pocket knife was overlooked in a pocket. But they were off on their whale watching trip.

14 February 2025 clouds and cold but no rain! Valentine’s Day

New campers showed up for the 3-day weekend! The KOA filled up! The campers across from the cabin had issues with their horn! It went off at midnight…and continued to honk, off and on until about 2 AM! Chamber Maid and Maid went about cleaning up the cabin for check out. Returned the key to the office and thought we left something in the cabin. So we got a LOT of walking in. Chauffeur picked up oldest daughter and her guy at 6 and got them settled in a cabin before going to The Hangout! Another go-to if you are ever in Myrtle Beach! It was incredible, fun and they even had us dancing on the tables…and chairs! Yep. We did that! There are photos to prove this! AND they passed out napkins that were thrown at the same time and it was like huge confetti falling from the ceiling! They also have a wall of thousands of PEZ dispensers! UNBELIEVABLE! Also dozens of lunch boxes and rubber ducks. Fun place to go. Great food. Look it up. Again…GO if you are ever there. Thank you Jenny for bringing a heavier jacket!

15 February 2025 cloudy

Picked up breakfast at the Bagel Factory, then headed to Charleston. We spent an hour or more at the Cypress Gardens. IF you’ve watched The Notebook, the boat scene was filmed there. We did have to watch out for alligators! They ARE there. Then we went to John’s Island and saw the Angel Oak tree! OH MY GOSH! It is HUGE! Just incredible!

16 February 2025 rain, sunny by the afternoon

Disciple looked up the time for church…9AM. Chauffeur got her there at 8:45…found out it started at 8:30. Hmmm…she stayed. A missionary there from Summerlin! That was interesting. Then went back again at 11. Jenny and Angelo were ready for adventure at one and we were off. We were off to Dirty Dan’s for seafood. Another good place. THEN we were off to hunt for shark teeth. Jenny and Angelo found at least a dozen, AND this weird sea creature. Googled it, but never found out what it was. We found NO shark teeth! A LOT of wannabe’s, BUT no actual shark teeth. We did find a rock shaped like a heart though and that was a great find. We had some great food at Tavern in the Forest. 

17 February 2025 SUNNY!!!

We had lunch at Big Mike’s Soul Food. ANOTHER great place to eat. Big Mike IS big! And he is a GREAT chef! Jenny got this grilled bologna sandwich. Angelo a seafood platter with the cat fish he’d been wanting and shrimp. We went for the BBQ ribs. There was a protest in front of the city hall! That was fascinating. Small, volatile, and a medic was waiting with the police. It didn’t last long, and before we knew it, everyone was gone. Then we were off to Myrtle Beach State Park. Found out from the park ranger that the sea creature found yesterday was a Mantis Shrimp. Next we were off to Broadway at the Beach. They have EVERYTHING there! Fun place full of all kinds of things to do. Then it was time for Angelo to go to the airport. 

18 February 2025 some clouds and cold! 30º

Building Maintainer worked with Camper to learn the ins and outs of RV life. Camper can put up a tent and survive all kinds of things, but an RV is NOT something she knows much about. Building Maintainer can fix most things, but RV knowledge is not her expertise. Practical knowledge helped some, but we were lacking. SO Jenny took us to the Beauty school and we had our hair washed and dried! That was great. Took our minds off of everything. Then we went to Dagwood’s…NOT the same as the ones we’d been to. We aren’t recommending it. Then we went to Myrtle Beach Harley Davidson and Walmart for groceries. Movies, food, and fun night.

19 February 2025 RAIN ALL DAY mixed with snow in the early evening EGADS!

We went to several Antique and Collectables stores. Some were worth the visit, some not. However, Organizer and Collector found a LOT of things we have in The Hermitage. That was interesting. We ate at the Waffle House and decided there should be one in Vegas. 

20 February 2025 somewhat clear, BUT 30º

The pond was icy this morning. Ducks were hiding somewhere. The egret was on a tree that had fallen across the pond. Not recently. Building Maintainer was dealing with more RV things. Those are working out and that’s great. We took a trip to the information center, then off to the Gay Dolphin Gift Shop. That place is HUGE. Nine floors of everything you can imagine and more. Just for fun, we recommend stepping in and making your way around. We did NOT see everything. Just TOO much. The temperature rose to 35º so we walked on the beach. AND YES! Hunter found a shark tooth! NOT a wannabe, BUT a REAL shark tooth! She was beside herself. It was well worth braving the cold temperatures! 

21 February 2025 Sunny with a few clouds, but 25º at 7:30 when we got up

Chamber Maid and Maid were busy tidying up and preparing the RV for the return of Bobby and Karin later in the evening. They wanted to make sure things were perfect for the homecoming. Our things were moved to the cabin and then Jenny took Fräulein to the airport to get them. Their trip was worth it! They DID see whales!

22 February 2025 Sunny…shocker! 

We prepared our travel bags, cleaned the cabin and loaded the car. We had lunch at Whiskey Roots. Food was pretty good. Ran errands as Bobby and Karin will be taking the RV to the next stop tomorrow. We were supposed to be going to the airport about 5, but got an email that our flight was canceled! JEEZ! So Jenny was on the phone getting a new flight. The new one was at 5 in the morning! Not too thrilled about it, but nothing we could do. SO we had Godfather’s pizza. AND according to Bobby it was absolutely the way he remembered it and worth it! 

23 February 2025 not sure what the weather was like. Dark and cold at 3:45AM

First leg of the trip was to Charlotte, about 45 minutes. Next leg to Vegas arriving a little after 9AM. As we flew, we thought a lot about the fact that there are NO lines on the ground to let you know where you are. Even a map in the seat pocket in front of you to show you the route you’re on would be fun. The pilot never says, “Hey, if you look out your window, you’ll see…” It would be fun to see things just like on a political map. As we got closer to Vegas, we knew Lake Mead, and everything else. Photographer got a picture of the dam and the bridge. Also Wayne’s house. We are thankful for a good friend who came to pick us up. Chauffeur got Jenny home around noon, then we had a quiet evening. We have returned to The Hermitage.

Trips are fun, entertaining, adventurous, exciting, expensive, and SO much more. We are SO incredibly thankful we could experience this. But it is always nice to come home and sleep in your own beds. We saw God’s hand in our lives many times, saw His tender mercies and timing. We ate a lot of fish, shrimp, crab and scallops. We also learned a new reply to things, “NOTED.”

Laundress did two loads of wash today. Gardener watered the houseplants and outside. The iris are starting to bloom. Jonquils, lavender, rosemary, and violets are blooming. Freesias are getting ready to bloom. Financier and Banker worked on the ledger and bills. Ornithologist filled the hummingbird feeders. Things are “normal” in The Hermitage, whatever that is. We are thankful and blessed! We are pressing forward with duties and projects.  

 30 January 2025

Another angel visited The Hermitage last night. When Chauffeur went to take Disciple to The Temple this morning, there was a surprise sitting on the bumper of the carriage! Excitement and glee danced about. Tears filled eyes. A child who lives close was questioned. Nope. Not her. Who could it be? This was pondered all day. 

After a marvelous day at The Temple, Disciple was greeted with an amazing sky. Saturn, Neptune and Venus were SO close they looked like one HUGE star. If that wasn't amazing enough, the "Cheshire Cat" moon was just below them. 

A phone call from the youngest daughter proved to answer the question of the surprise Valentine gift. We had NO IDEA that she was down this way and snuck by The Hermitage last night. Angels sneak around. It is wonderful. Thank you Jessica!

 28 January 2025

The "Demons" were heavy in The Hermitage this morning. Tears were flowing. Laughter was gone. Dismay was everywhere. None of us could shake it. We were done. Done playing. Done with everything. When the "physical" part of The Hermitage is down, "emotional" and "mental" are quick to follow...and after almost two weeks of being physically down, we were in the great abyss of depression. 

Disciple prayed. OH how she prayed...and cried. She explained that we have SO much to be thankful for, so much to live for...despite what the rest of those in The Hermitage were saying.

The oldest daughter called just after Banker and Financier paid the bills. She was the first angel of the day, calling to help lift us.

Angelo sent a message that he would be over in a bit to do the master bath issues. Another angel. The sink in the master bath has had issues. About a year ago it started to drip...drip...drip. Then it started to drip, drip, drip. Lately it has been a constant dripdripdripdripdrip. Something needed to be done.

With these angels the course of The Hermitage began to change. Hope was on the horizon. God is amazing. Prayers are amazing. They were heard and answered ALL day, AND there were many. 

Four trips to Home Depot. Angelo's expertise. Builder's ready to help attitude. Despite a set-back, ALL turned out well. We are truly blessed. We know we have purpose. We know that God knows each of us personally, what we need, how we need it, and when. We know that He loves us and is there for us in our darkness. He is there in our joys. He knows our weaknesses, and strengthens us. We know ALL prayers are heard. We know ALL prayers are answered. We were humbled by ALL that happened today. We are thankful for the angels in our lives. 

 15 January 2025

So much to write about, and WHERE to start?!?!

We all have been mildly discombobulated with our lack of connections. That may be an understatement. Nevertheless we tried to carry on. For the most part.

Builder and Hermitage Maintenance Crew got the drill and drill bits out to put the knobs on the upper cabinets. There were 21 knobs to put up. One drill bit broke. Thankfully between several men in the lives of those in The Hermitage, they had several drill bit sets to choose from. They were able to get all but seven of them done by 11AM.

Chauffeur took Correspondent to yonder phone store. Phone wouldn't charge, NOR would it come on. Because it wasn't damaged on the outside, and great care was taken over the years, the extended warranty would work. New phone for a little over $5.00. Bonus. Doing the HAPPY DANCE! It would arrive Tuesday or Wednesday. SO grateful for Disciples answered prayers!!!

Back to The Hermitage. Builder and Hermitage Maintenance Crew have ALL the knobs on the upper cabinets! Now they will be working on the ceiling, and other things to finish the kitchen.

Seamstress has been working on one of the PHD's. A felt/beaded Christmas stocking. She works for a couple of hours and stops. The holes in the beads are taking a toll on the eyes. But things are moving along and it looks nice.

Gardener, Landscaper and Decorator worked out in the front yard bringing in the Christmas things, watering, trimming rose bushes, etc. The daffodils and paperwhites are blooming. Roses were cut and put in a vase, again. They smell so wonderful in the living room. With no warning, our temperatures dropped and NO ONE TOLD Gardener to cover plants! This is NOT the weather we were expecting this week. What the heck?!?!!? We may get snow at The Hermitage and we didn't even cover any of the plants. This may not turn out well!

Organizer and some of her helpers cleared a path in the garage. It has been a big wreck for a few months, BUT we can now get from the front to the back and back again. WOOHOO!!! That's a bonus!

We've gathered firewood again from the piles of wood throughout the community. Many of the trees died and are being cut down. The woodpile is growing. That's good, considering the weather this next week!

Chauffeur took Correspondent back to the phone store this morning. The new phone is nice, but things didn't transfer as she had hoped. Only 7 contacts out of about 1000 transferred; two relatives, three HOA board members, one acquaintance, and a friend who died two years ago. Hmmm...a tad discouraged. Things didn't look the same. But we went on our way. Youngest son sent a link to help...but it didn't. THEN while looking at the new phone, a message came up asking if we wanted to download all of the old information from the old phone to the new phone. Correspondent thought...OF COURSE! If you can do that on your own little smart phone, GO FOR IT! AND it did!!! ALL of the contacts were back!!! WOOHOO!!! Correspondent still couldn't figure out the main page of the phone, so Chauffeur took her back to the phone store. The same lovely young woman helped her again. In fact she begged to help Correspondent. You see, there was a drunken, non-English speaking customer ranting, raging, etc. in the store. The English words he knew were NOT the words any of us particularly wanted to hear. Correspondent got her mace out of her bag. She was there for an hour and a half, and the young woman was thankful. Very thankful. The police were called. The guy went out. They locked the doors. Then letting another customer out, he came BACK in...and it started all over again. He was told the police were on their way, and left again. Correspondent left and passed the police going to the phone store. Her head was pounding. She realized that she hadn't eaten all day...AGAIN! BUT thankful all was well with the phone.

As we were ALL regrouping at The Hermitage, eating, etc. nagging thoughts kept coming to mind that we were possibly forgetting things. Yes...about 8PM we realized that Board Member forgot to put out the street sweeping signs, AND Disciple forgot to do Activity Girls! AND she had the Ice Breaker Games for them. JEEZ...

Scullery Maid is unimpressed with others in The Hermitage who are using her island for their desk and that Seamstress and Quilter haven't put away everything from their projects. At least she hasn't started a fight with them. Seems as though she has valid complaints. They will have to get on that Friday. Friday is clean-up day.

Tomorrow is another day. We can regroup. Find peace. Get back on track. Get our acts together. Sleep will help.

 10 January 2025

Writer is having a difficult time, as are the rest of us in The Hermitage. Queen was born in California, and all of us have spent time living or visiting in Southern California for the past, almost 70 years. We all have SO many memories, and as we have watched the fires burning, prayed for everyone there, and prayed for those working hard to protect and take care of the fires and people, we are heartbroken. We can't do anything. Sadly, we vividly remember when they used to do "fire breaks" on the hillsides and mountains. We lived in the Santa Monica mountains, "fire breaks" were everywhere. We know why they quit doing them, and since that time, these fires have burned uncontrollably. Do we think they screwed up? You bet. For years now, we have seen the devastation. But do they go back to making the fire breaks? Nope. And we are heartbroken. 

We think about those who suffered in North Carolina from the floods. MANY are still sleeping in make-shift areas, tents, etc. We pray for them. We are heartbroken for them. 

We think about those who are in ice/snow storms that are breaking records as well. We are praying for them.

The devastation, just in our country, is sad. We are doing all that we can do from where we are. We are watching for those to let us know they are at least safe. 

Organizer made a chart a week ago. She also made a LONG list of things that need to be; fixed/repaired, finished, built, or taken care of as needed. She has given everyone their fair warning about what she wants accomplished everyday, so that we all accomplish our year goals. Most of us actually think we can do this. And so it has begun!

Scullery Maid was very busy Monday cleaning up from the Family Dinner the night before. Chef and Baker outdid themselves, and it was great! 

Chauffeur took Shopper to a few places. She found gas for $3.07 at a MEGA-SUPER guild! Then they were off to a SUPER guild for some needed supplies. They found eggs! They were $6.00 for a dozen, but we found them. 

Gardener spent some time in the south 40 removing rocks and weeds. She will be ready to plant things in a couple of months. She isn't sure what, but time will tell.

Ms Maintenance repaired a 45 year old rocking chair! She couldn't do it before as one of the spindles was in storage. However, she made a tool to help her with the holes, got the glue and it is back together. She also put wheels on an old wagon that had crappy plastic wheels that were brittle from the heat, and replaced them with metal rimmed wheels. Works great and she was able to cross off two things on her list.

Quilter and Seamstress finished an almost 50 year old project. In 1976 they started a quilt. It is an Around the World quilt made from fabrics they have used over the last 50+ years. They had the corners and center started, but life happened. Four children came to The Hermitage, clothes needed to be made, children taken here and there, work, etc. The quilt was put away...UNTIL 2001. The Queen Mum came to visit and asked, "What projects do you have that we can finish?" Out came the quilt, and boxes of fabric. Two inch squares were cut. The Queen Mum told Seamstress, "YOU sit there, and I will cut the squares and give them to you. No need to get up." After hours at the machine, Seamstress got up. This was questioned. She said, "I'm going to the bathroom!!!" After a few days, the top was FINALLY finished!!! Seamstress had Chauffeur take her to a home where another Quilter machine quilted it for her. Then the quilt disappeared into a box and ended up in storage for 15+ years. In September of 2024, a box came off the truck marked, Around the World quilt! WOOHOO!!! Finally! The box was brought in and opened! DANG...IT...ALL!!! The edges weren't bound! What the heck?!?!? On Wednesday, Quilter and Seamstress cut and sewed almost 500 inches of binding on the quilt. A year ago they swore they would NEVER make another quilt as big as the one they had just finished. It was almost 10' square! Well, they had to eat their words. The Around the World quilt IS 10' square, each side is 120" and there are 4,225 little squares! As Seamstress sewed, looking at all the fabrics brought back SO many memories of sewing clothes for the family. Dresses for Queen, and the girls, shirts for the boys and the past King, etc. A few hours later and the quilt was done. FINALLY!!! After almost 50 years! Another thing completed and crossed off the list.

Disciple helped with journal making with the Activity Girls. The boys joined us. Hmmm...The Temple was an all day joy on Thursday. She visited with one of the couples she sees every week and found that he is an 8th cousin and she is a 13th cousin. Interesting.

Today Architect and Builder were helped immensely by a head builder! Concrete deck blocks and sand were purchased at the local building supply guild. A senior discount was given, which was appreciated. Back at The Hermitage, rocks were shoveled and moved, pavers were laid, things were set up to begin the deck work. We have gathered 8 doors with glass in them for the three sides. To say ALL of us in The Hermitage are EXCITED would be an understatement. Decorator has many items ready to decorate when it is completed. Most have a heart motif. This presents a problem, as many of us in The Hermitage wanted to name the building the "Love Shack" but were told ABSOLUTELY NOT! Hmmm...Photographer is trying to remember to photograph the progress. 

Seamstress has also been working on another hand sewn and beaded project. It is coming along. This was begun at least two years ago and put away. However, IT, as well as four others are on "The LIST" of things to do this year, so she is busy with that.

Queen's brother called today. They talked about the fires. 

Despite the horrific disasters we read about, we are hopeful. Disciple has faith. The rest of us are trying to follow her lead. But we are heartbroken. We feel the losses all of these people are going through and can't even imagine the devastation. We read something this week, and while we don't remember the exact wording, it was something like, "everyone and everything has an hourglass. You never know when the sand will be gone. But someday it will be." Appreciate what you have. Love those around you. Count your blessings. Smile. Be kind. Hug more. Keep going.

 

31 December 2024

Well, here we are, the end of the year. Six more hours until we say goodbye to 2024. The fireworks have already started close by, as we can hear them. Some of them are HUGE. As we ponder past 70 New Year’s eves, we don’t remember going anywhere really. Not like they show in the movies. Now and then we have gone to friend’s homes and played games. We’ve even had some over to The Hermitage for food and games. But not recently. We are not “party animals.” We are NOT anti-party, anti-social, but we ARE wallflowers. We go to things because we are “expected” to be there, but we sit in the corner. IF someone comes to sit with us, we LOVE to visit and talk, but we have a hard time. We always have. It is a struggle for all of us. People don’t “think” it is for us, but IT IS. Just trust us.

Chauffeur took Shopper to the Super Store this morning. She got everything on Chef’s list, and a tad more.

Chef received the bags with enthusiasm and got to it. She was busy for a couple of hours. She made crab dip, macaroni salad, deviled eggs, coleslaw, “eggroll in a bowl,” and broccoli and cauliflower cheese soup. We already had a bottle of Martinelli’s, ginger ale, and Fanta Strawberry soda. AND Shopper bought a bag of Cheetos, as everyone in The Hermitage LOVES them. So, Chef has us ready to snack later. We did try the “eggroll in a bowl,” for lunch, and a bowl of soup for dinner. Both were great. Chef used all of the green onions, even on something where they weren’t called for, AND didn’t have them for something that DID call for them. Chauffeur took Shopper to the smaller market close by, and she stood in line for them. Then when it came time to pay, the woman she had been talking to behind her, told the cashier she would pay for the green onions! All of us were excited. She was, Shopper was, and the cashier was dumbfounded. It really wasn’t much, monetarily, but the gesture was huge.

Movie Buff has had three movies on so far today, Pollyanna…YES, we ALL weep at the end. EVERY…SINGLE…TIME. And there have been many times over the years. Then we watched The Parent Trap. The old one. And yes, we cry with that one too. We are now at the very end of The Swiss Family Robinson. Seems Movie Buff has a thing for the “Mill’s” family today. Writer wonders IF That Darn Cat will come up next? Or The Moonspinners? Well, she just put on Blackbeard’s Ghost! Maybe pirates are the theme? But That Darn Cat was a close second.

Facebook is interesting in that you can look back on your “memories” from past years. We have found this fascinating. For instance, on the same day for several years, it rained. Or, we did the same things, or the same things happened. Today for instance, the same words were used, “WOW! What a difficult year. Let’s hope next year is better!” Hmmm…

2024 was a trying, difficult year in MANY ways, however, it was also GREAT in many ways. A very good friend just posted the following quote. "Life is amazing. And then it's awful. And then it's amazing again. And in between the amazing and awful it's ordinary and mundane and routine. Breathe in the amazing, hold on through the awful, and relax and exhale during the ordinary. That's just living heartbreaking, soul-healing, amazing, awful, ordinary life. And it's breathtakingly beautiful." ~L.R. Knost So true! Life is a basic roller coaster. None of us in The Hermitage are very fond of roller coasters anymore. We’ve had our share of riding on some very famous ones, and are over it. WAY over it.

And so, when we look back, we are SO thankful and SO blessed! We are focusing on that. The other stuff is just that, stuff. We have seen miracles this year. We have experienced countless blessings. We’ve made it through trials with trust and faith. THAT is what we are going to remember. We are SO thankful that this is the year we retrieved our things from the storage unit and have no longer had that bill hanging over our finances. Financier is VERY thankful for that. Every day we are thankful for that chapter being closed. And thankful for those who helped so much.

Last night Organizer spent time updating the new blank 2025 calendar by writing EVERYTHING that ALL of us in The Hermitage will need to know going into the New Year. Today she proposed a new “chore” chart for The Hermitage. We all agreed that it “should” work well. Some of us smirked. Some winked. But we were given the “eye” and ALL straightened up.

Some of the things she has planned for us are just getting us ALL back on track. With retirement came adjustments. Some of us became slackers. Well, Organizer has said, that is enough of that. Time to get our acts together. And so we will do our best.

Gardener will be getting gardens going, fixing the compost area, and continuing to keep up with things. She needs to get with Lumberjack on the pile of firewood we have recently accrued.

Disciple had a scripture regimen she started in the fall of 1991 with daily scripture reading in the morning. She did that up until January of 2023, when she was challenged to read Jesus the Christ. Yes, she “could” have done both, but didn’t. Now she is out of her routine and needs to get her act back together. So, that is on the list.

Builder has the plans drawn for the “Love Shack” in the backyard. However, she has also been told she ABSOLUTELY CAN NOT call it that…Under ANY circumstances, etc. So, she and Gardener have decided to call it something else, but haven’t come up with any ideas. They are still going to decorate it with hearts and flowers, and everyone will relax in it. If anyone has any ideas for a cute name, let us know. We will get Painter to design and paint a cute hanging sign.

The list for Seamstress includes making a couple of Temple dresses, as well as use up some fabric for other wearing apparel. She also has 6 boxes of old jeans to use for something. She is pondering a long jean jacket.

Quilter will be making table runners, other small quilts, and who knows what else.

Crafter and Painter are going to combine their skills, and get all the wood “PHD’s” (projects half done) out and finish painting them.

There is hope for Scrapbooker and Historian going through photos, memorabilia, etc., and putting books together. This is something that has been on hold for a couple of reasons. One, a lot of the stuff needed was in the “storage” as well as the stamping stuff. NOW it is all here and ready to go.

Organizer is still going through boxes. She went through a box filled with 50 years of Christmas cards. WOW! That was interesting. The furniture, for the most part, is moved. Our backs hurt, and we have bruises, but things are down to mostly boxes. The kitchen is at 90% now. Chef and Baker, as well as Scullery Maid are thankful for that. They can now function at a normal pace. They would still like the ceiling to be finished, the crown molding, and knobs on the upper cabinets. Oh, and the ceiling fan/light over the table. THEN the floor will have to be done. Painter needs to paint the three bedrooms, but that will happen hopefully later this year.

There are small projects to do. Go through the recipes for Chef and Baker. Recipes have been printed off and just shoved in cookbooks. This is unacceptable to Organizer. Something will be done.

A HUGE project is the garage. OH…MY…GOSH!!! That will be tackled an hour at a time until it is done.

Historian is still working on Family Trees. Several of them. She has fun doing that.

Disciple works at the Temple on Thursdays, and is now the Stake Just Serve Specialist. More to find out about that this year. She also works with the 8-11 year old girls twice a month.

The piano is in need of playing, and now that we have all of our music, with a new hymnbook coming soon, that will be something we will enjoy hearing.

We will ALL be walking more, and playing more. Traveler will also be taking a trip, maybe more, and she is more than excited about that!

So, as we sit here, listening to the early fireworks, and close out this year with four hours left, we wish you ALL a very happy new year. May you all be blessed with the things you need. Let us find the joy in life. Let us look for the good in people, and everything that happens. Have faith and trust. Be grateful. Be true. Be humble. Be prayerful. Be happy.