30 January 2026

 

Writer keeps thinking she will enlighten others about the on goings of those in The Hermitage, BUT time has been consumed by so many things. Some of us decided that we weren’t going to be on the phone wasting time, so time is being used more constructively.

 

“There comes a time when one must take a position that is neither safe, nor politic, nor popular, but he must take it because conscience tells him it is right.”

Martin Luther King 

 

"Too often we enjoy the comfort of opinion without the discomfort of thought."

JFK

 

Two quotes we have been pondering here at The Hermitage, and for good reason. While we ALL have our thoughts, opinions, and conscience, we have decided to act in a way that doesn’t bring conflict on many fronts. This is something we do, NOT out of cowardice, but Peacemaker has reigned several of us in, and for good reason. Some of us have, in the past, tended to become combative. In order to live peacefully, which is our complete desire, we have not entered into any form of disagreements. At least NOT worldly. Take that as you will, but please do not chastise us for working to get along and play well in the sandbox with others.

 

Baker hasn’t been too busy with anything, although there have been requests. Not sure what her problem is, but a Key Lime pie or Coconut Cream would be nice. Cookies might be nice too. She suggested Shopper buy some candy and refill the tins, which Shopper complied and the tins are full. 

 

Chef HAS been busy. Just today she made a big pot of white chili and another pot of taco soup. Everyone is excited about this and it smells wonderful! She has also grilled some egg salad sandwiches, made some beef stew, and various other things. Thankfully she has been busy.

 

Building Super has had the fire going a few times in the evenings and it is wonderful. She has even had to remove the ashes three times. She is preparing to “check” the watering system out front with Plumber. She hasn’t done it, because things have been TOO hectic, and in the event that everything blows up, she isn’t quite ready for that fiasco. 

 

Gardener and Landscaper spoke with the guy from the water company about the project across the street. They went from real grass to turf. He complimented Gardener on ALL of her plants and how more people should do that. She was shocked and appreciative. Daffodil’s, roses, rosemary, etc. are all still blooming, and many others are getting ready to bloom. It is lovely and smells wonderful. They also got the walk and scalloped edging back in place from the new sidewalk piece where the sinkhole was. 

 

Family Historian was working overtime and went WAY down the rabbit hole again! She is insane! She was back to the 600’s and 1000’s. THEN she printed off 52 ordinance cards!!! HOLY COW!!! So, Disciple not only worked her shift and was there, as usual, all day on the last two Thursdays, she also was there on Friday and Saturday for most of both days! AND got them all done, ONLY to have Family Historian do it AGAIN!!! But Disciple got them all done last night! She has implored Family Historian to dial it back a little. We’ll see how that goes. BUT she did share some of the names with others, and new friends in Rexbury have taken on the task. That’s a blessing! Disciple also went to the monthly luncheon with 21 of the sister’s she works with at the Temple on Thursdays. They went to P.F. Changs! It was fun and she dressed up. 

Artist tried her hand at watercoloring. This is not a medium she has done much in her life, but was given a cute watercolor kit for Christmas by Queen's oldest son, and thought she would give it a go. It is fun.

 

Seamstress has been VERY busy. She sewed up three of the JustServe quilt tops and took them back. Now she has been busy with felt, beaded/sequined Christmas stockings. She made them for Queen’s children over 40 years ago. Then it was “suggested” that spouses and grandchildren should have them. Hmmm… So, she started one for the oldest grandchild several years ago. It is tedious work, threading the needles isn’t easy anymore, especially the beading needle, and cutting all of the pieces out is also time consuming. Each stocking takes between 70 and 100 hours. BUT she finished the stocking for Lucas last Saturday after getting on a roll. It had been sitting for far too long. She has decided she is going to finish one a month. She started the one for Queen’s oldest granddaughter and is about a third of the way. She has figured out a new method to the madness. NOT that it is saving much time, but seems to work better. Right now she is doing a satin stitch on several candy canes. She is determined. 

 

Chauffeur doesn’t take anyone too many places. She takes Disciple to Church and The Temple, and she takes Shopper to the local marketplace. She is still having a few issues with intersections, but working on that. 

 

Organizer has some new plans for various tasks. She has been in cahoots with Gardener, Landscaper, and Building Super about removal of rocks and the design for the gardening area. They brought home 60 concrete blocks from the remodeled front yard across the street. They are like several others in The Hermitage. They can’t stand to see something still usable thrown in the trash. She also worked in the carriage house and sorted through some things! Progress is being made!

 

Banker, Financier, and Manager have been contemplating tax season. They are hoping it doesn’t turn out like last year. Time will tell. They did notice that the electric bill went up $70.00! Could the Christmas lights have done that? They checked the previous January bill and noticed that one went up almost that much last Christmas! Why didn’t they notice that before? Are the Christmas lights worth it? There will NEVER be a discussion over that! 

 

Weather Girl has been pleased with what is going on here in Vegas, as compared to the rest of the US. Night time temperatures have been in the mid 40’s, although one night it dropped to 34º. There was a freeze warning, but it didn’t drop that low. The day time temps have been in the 60’s and 70’s. THIS is the weather we would like all year. She tells us not to get too used to it, time will tell what’s going to happen next.

 

Board Member has been working over-time. She has gone to two city planning meetings for the empty building nearby. It has become a refuge for many who have made choices that have put them in a homeless situation. This has not been a great thing. She has also worked with another board member cleaning things up… WITH GLOVES… and taking care of other HOA business. The elections are next month, but her term isn’t up. 

 

Queen’s youngest had his birthday this month on the 5th. We ALL pondered where the last 43 years had gone? We discussed and thought about things that had happened, events, etc. Days seem L O N G and years go so fast. How does this happen???

 

Spread joy. Be kind. Take care of yourself. You are the only you we have.

 4 January 2026

As Disciple sat in Church today, listening to heartfelt testimonies, her mind wandered. NOT that this is uncommon. It is not. The minds of those in The Hermitage wander around in various places frequently. Half the time when someone is talking in The Hermitage, a frequent word is, “What?” This is due to the fact that everyone is wandering in their own little worlds, far from real time, thinking about projects, things that need to be addressed, or just plain pondering.

Disciple started thinking about “gifts.” Queen received a gift that was given to someone else because the youngest grandson just read the “To:” part of the tag, which read, “Mom,” but neglected to read the “From:” part, which read, “Mike.” The error was immediately corrected. 

A beautiful gift was received last week from Amazon. It caused a conundrum for about 20 minutes. No one knew WHO sent it. The weeks have been hectic, time flew on, with many other things as well. Daughter-in-law and Youngest Grandson were here, in fact, she received it from the Amazon delivery guy out at the curb when he arrived. When this beautiful gift was opened, both DIL and Queen were shocked and befuddled. Youngest Grandson, in the middle of the confusion, suggested the obvious person who sent it. Queen and DIL both adamantly said, “NO!” at the same time. Then, Queen’s phone rang, and looking at who was calling, she immediately remembered the phone call from the week before that came in all Christmas and HOA confusion, and knew who the beautiful gift was from. 

Over the years we have ALL received gifts; wedding gifts, shower gifts, birthday gifts, some from family, some from friends, some from “secret sisters,” some from admirers (secret and otherwise), white elephants and exchanges, etc. Some gifts were surprises, others for a reason. 

And so, Disciple pondered “gifts” as she sat in the Chapel. She realized that it will be four months tomorrow that The Hermitage received an unexpected “gift” and none of us has been the same since. She has discussed these thoughts with the others here at The Hermitage. 

Every day is a brand new “GIFT.” Every day that new gift is opened… Hopefully. It is rarely the same gift as the one before. This gift comes in all sizes, colors, shapes, etc. As we open each gift we may say, “WHOA!!! This isn’t mine!” “I don’t remember ordering this!” “WHO sent this?!” “This is the wrong color!” “This isn’t my size!” “I don’t need this!” “This wasn’t what I expected!” “What the heck?!” “Can I return this?” “Can I exchange this?” “Maybe I’ll give it to someone else.” “Perhaps I’ll use it at a gift exchange!” “What am I going to do with this?”

But that gift was picked for us personally by Him who knows exactly what we need and when on this journey. Each gift arrives on time and with a purpose. Each gift helps us to realize so much more than the actual gift. Sometimes, well most times, it brings other gifts. As we realize how the gift was meant for us, and ask the giver what was meant, lights go on. He will let us know exactly how to use each gift. He will answer ALL of our questions regarding each new gift. All we have to do is ask. It rarely helps to try and figure it out ourselves. He knows all things. 

So, each morning as you open your personal gift, remember who sent it and learn why. There is a reason. Hugs!

31 December 2025

What can Writer say about this past year? In looking at past years we have been thankful to have gotten through the year, and 2025 is no different. There have been accomplishments, successes, setbacks, surprises, and everything in between with everyone in The Hermitage. As we ponder and reflect this past year, in the end we know we are blessed and grateful, and we just need to shut the front door. The old year is going to be gone, and the New Year will be here in a few hours. We can look back and use the past as a reminder in the future. There is nothing to change. There were lessons, challenges, trials, and breakthroughs. A milestone was hit in the middle of the year and it hit hard. But we have continued on constantly reminding ourselves that even though we have aged, it is okay. We aren’t limited. We can still do MOST things we want or have to do. The things we can’t do, we know help isn’t far. So what’s ahead? 

Queen is still the royal individual in charge of The Hermitage and all of the bozos within. She rules, but isn’t a tyrant. She is a vital part of everything that happens here. She is loved.

Disciple is still working at The Temple, sings in the choir, and is the JustServe Specialist. There will be things she will be doing throughout the year. Sisters in Service will start up again mid-January.

Seamstress and Quilter have projects they are anxious to do.

Crafter, Painter and Artisan also have projects to work on and finish.

Builder is hoping to address and finish a few past projects.

Organizer is going to continue to “do her thing” within The Hermitage and Carriage house. She is preparing for a large Carriage House Sale. She has decided there are FAR TOO MANY things that aren’t used or needed.

Gardener and Landscaper have plans for a garden of sorts. At least a few plants that produce something edible. They, with Laborer, moved about 50+ decorative cinder blocks yesterday for the border to the garden. This caused complaining in regards to hips, back, arms, neck and shoulder. But when they are done, it will be lovely.  

Chef and Baker are working with Organizer and Writer. They are going to address the cookbooks. They have decided they really don’t use ALL that are available, and there may be a mass removal.

Financier, Accountant, Banker, and Retiree are in cahoots about some things in their departments. They are not sharing information as this year they dropped the ball on plans.

Chauffeur is still looking for a new carriage. Nothing has been settled in the legal battle from September, so things are still up in the air. 

We have NO resolutions. We never do. We aspire to do better. Be better. Continue to be optimistic. Be kind. Smile and wave. Embrace life. Continue to be grateful for ALL blessings. Remember why we are here and that we have a purpose. Think of others. Be loving. Happiest New Year Blessings to all!

 

 13 December 2025 

12+13=25 

OH! Math Nerd needs to find something to do. Writer is busy.

A week ago, or so, a statement was made. The statement doesn’t really matter, and those of us in The Hermitage who heard it processed it FAR differently than what was said, for a completely different reason. This was not an intentional oversight, or to disagree with or disregard what was said, BUT as we have aged, it meant something different to us. WE processed it differently and wondered why. So, ALL of us in The Hermitage have been mulling this phrase over in our mind for the last week or so. Each of us has come up with many thoughts. It has been like an out-of-control fire of sorts. Correspondent even called to discuss it with Queen’s brother. He remembers and feels the same way as MANY of us in The Hermitage.

The phrase used was “special event.” At 70 we are all pondering just WHAT a “special event” IS? We thought about memories from the last 70 years, where we’ve lived, what we’ve done/not done, etc. Historian has been called upon, as well as Queen, Party Planner, Chef, Baker, Activities Chairwoman, Shopper, Graduate, ETC! 

Growing up, we were far from most all of the relatives. Who are we kidding? We didn’t even live near any relatives until we were in our mid-teens, and even then it was a 20 minute drive. Yes, that’s close, but when you don’t drive, it isn’t, and Chauffeur wasn’t driving quite yet. IF there were any special events, over the years, we were not a part of them. 

So, just what might be a special event? Birth of a child? Birthdays? Baptisms? Graduations? Weddings? Anniversaries? Funerals? Holidays? New Years? Y2K? Getting out of a hospital? Buying a house? Buying a car? Going on a date? Going to a sporting event? Going to a concert? Going to a recital? Getting engaged? When you get together with family? When family comes from out of town? ALL of these “could” be a “special event.”

Then Chef, Baker, Shopper, Decorator, Photographer, and others pondered WHAT goes with all of these “special events?” The list is FAR TOO long to even go there, suffice to say food, drinks, games, and decorations. If not more. THIS is where Correspondent called Queen’s brother. 

“Cary, what do you remember about any of these special events from our childhood?” His reply was the same as Queen’s when she was asked. “Nothing. We did nothing.” Queen and her brother remember “celebrating” their birthdays, maybe, three to four times each over the years. Maybe less. IF anything was done, cake was part of it. Rarely was a photo taken. By rarely, Historian has seen maybe one. We could remember two weddings we went to that weren't for a parent. We can’t remember going to any friends’ birthdays. We may have gone to a funeral or two. Each of us were baptized; no big deal was made, and no photos taken. Queen and her brother both graduated. There was no party and no photos taken. THIS IS NOT for anyone to throw a pity party for us. THIS IS NOT why Writer is writing, OR why we are even discussing this, or pondering it in The Hermitage. We did not grow up around “special events” of any kind really. We both vaguely remember where we were for any of the holidays. We went trick-or-treating maybe three or four times. We never carved any pumpkins. So, when the term “special events” came up a few weeks ago, it sent our minds on a trip down that memory lane. Who we were with, what we ate/drank, where we were, etc. Photographer was rarely, if ever there. The photos are all in our minds. That’s it. That’s all. 

THEN we got to thinking about WHAT was in our fridge. “Cary, do you remember soda ever being in our house?” He said exactly what Queen remembered. THIS is why Historian and Correspondent phoned him. They weren’t quite sure about Queen’s answers. Cary replied, “No. There was never soda in the house.” He also said that there were cookies once in a while, like Christmas, but rarely any other times. Baker started baking at age 10, so when allowed, she did make some. There were never any desserts, popsicles, or anything else like that. Candy was only present at Christmastime. It was usually fudge. There were rarely any snacks for us. BUT there were “other” things. In the “early” years, before Queen was 6, the parents would have poker parties on Friday nights, or entertain guests from the “mainland.” There were “Hors d'oeuvres” of all kinds, dips and chips, and drinks of all kinds. By drinks, there was whiskey, bourbon, scotch, rum, gin, brandy, beer, etc. Cary and Queen BOTH remember asking to try what we thought was “soda” one of those nights, and dad gave us both a small glass of clear liquid. OH MY GOSH!!! IT was horrible. Tonic water. Nasty. They also remember Bing Crosby buying them both an orange Nehi at the Pro-Am Golf Tournament in Kauai when they were children. But in their years at home there was no sodas, no chips, no snacks, etc. We ate breakfast, lunch and dinner. That was it. Once in a while there was ice cream, but that wasn’t frequent either. When we went out to dinner, which was rare, we DID get to have a Shirley Temple. 

Growing up, Queen’s children had a somewhat different life. Shopper would buy sodas when we would go to spend the day at the lake. But having them in the house all the time wasn’t a thing. They had ice cream, cookies, etc. now and then, but not every night. Snacks and such were infrequent as well. They were always outside playing, so they rarely ate between meals. They did have birthday parties, graduations, baptisms, etc. all with a LOT of party food and photos. We also had HUGE super bowl parties. At least for a few years. 

Now at 70, recalling all of this we have a few thoughts. Our first thought is this, and it comes from the accident in September, as well as our birthday in June. Those of us in The Hermitage have a quiet life. Just waking up in the morning is now a “special event,” and we are thankful. No, we don’t throw a party, but we do constantly give thanks. Especially when we DO go somewhere, and return to The Hermitage safely. And we rarely go anywhere… Church, The Temple, and the marketplace. SO anytime we see others, especially family and those from out of town, or go somewhere, or do something, IT IS a “special event.” It is SO special to us. We delight in it. We are thankful and blessed. We celebrate it. Another thought comes from a talk by Elder Uchtdorf titled Your Potential, Your Privilege. Don’t delay. Don’t wait to celebrate. Every day is a blessing and gift. Don’t wait to use the good china. Don’t wait to wear that special outfit. Don’t wait to do anything. Enjoy life and live each day. Each day can be a “special event.” This is NOT to say you should over-do it, or indulge too much. Remember moderation in all things. Also, not all of us see things the same way. Our experiences, thoughts, understandings, and reactions can differ greatly.  

10 December 2025

Writer has decided that short updates are in order, for several reasons.

Weather Girl has noticed that the weather service keeps posting warning updates to a “heat wave” here in Vegas. WHY do we need to brace for a “heat wave” of temperatures in the low 70’s here in Vegas? To her, this seems absolutely ridiculous! Everyone in The Hermitage thinks the weather has been incredibly wonderful! Low 70’s during the day and mid 40’s at night. What more could we ask for? It isn’t like the summer when we need to brace for temps in the 115º area. So, again, we ask, just what are we bracing for? Nice weather?

Board Member has done a LOT of HOA activity this last week. Dead trees have been cut down. The areas where you drive into the “Estates” are being updated and should help keep property values up. Street lights were updated in August, then they all went out back in September. The problem has been searched for months. They thought they found it, BUT still no lights. Hmm… Concrete work is being done, pool drain is being fixed, and several other things are taking place, so she has been on a couple of walks throughout the community with another board member, checking it all out. 

Animal Lover took a trunk load of blankets, towels, sheets, leashes, harnesses, dishes, rugs, etc., to the animal foundation. She found out they love to have volunteers! This could be dangerous.

Seamstress and Quilter used their skills to sew up three quilt tops for JustServe. We’ve been told no more until the New Year. A little break will be nice, and it will give them a chance to work on things here. 

Disciple loves working at the Temple AND everyone she works with there. It is always a blessing to leave the outside world and be in a celestial environment. She also had a leadership dinner and enjoyed that and being with other disciples. 

Organizer, Scullery Maid, Chamber Maid, and Laundress were busy taking care of the last of the things in the kitchen and chambers. Everyone thinks it is just amazing. 

Grandmomma had a grandson for a bit. Chef made the usual pancakes and sausage, then They went to the Giving Machine. He chose to give pet food to homebound pet owners in need, and chickens and business training to lift people out of poverty. Grandmomma and Disciple chose to give meals to seniors and money towards adoption fees so a child can have a forever home. They went to Hemenway Park in Boulder City to check out the BigHorn Sheep. There were about two dozen, and some people were getting into the personal space of the Bighorn. They were hoping for some wild entertainment, but it didn’t happen this time. Then they went to Lake Mead and checked out the carp and striper. They also fed popcorn to the ducks, geese and coots at Sunset Park. Crafter and Chris made four snowflakes out of white hangers, two large and two small. After dinner, they watched a couple of movies with Movie Buff, who is off report since she has regrouped, and found some hilarious videos with animals. They watched one video several times of three cats in a house watching a bird. A poodle comes up quietly behind them, sees the bird and starts barking, scaring the cats who all jump about 4 to 5 feet. They couldn’t stop laughing and almost couldn’t breathe. 

Gardener helped Crafter and Decorator hang the snowflakes in the tree out front. They look nice out there. Gardener also deadheaded the roses and dug up and moved a lot of iris. IF anyone wants some iris, let her know. And she prepared the area for the sinkhole conundrum. 

Chef and Baker were busy preparing things for a potluck Disciple went to with the Temple sisters. There were 25 there. Chef made a favorite curry, chicken, broccoli, and rice casserole. Baker made Key Lime pies. It was a wonderful luncheon, and she probably won’t eat for a while.

Correspondent “may” be having issues. There was a time, DECADES ago, that she would send out a minimum of 350 Christmas cards. Over the last fifty years, a lot of the receivers have passed on, lost touch, don’t send, etc. Correspondent “may” have sent out two dozen last year. Maybe. This year she is pondering what to do. We’ve explained she had two weeks. She has explained that it has been a few months of trials, and things just aren’t the way they normally are. And is “normal” a thing anymore. She says no. Disciple says no. Gardener says no. Things are definitely NOT as they were. Not even close. Baker knows she needs to get with it if she is going to plate goodies to take to others. She may be the only “normal” person in The Hermitage at the moment. She is also supposed to be baking and decorating four cakes for Disciple to take to the Ward Christmas Party on Saturday night. Bonus points for her for saying she would do that! 

Momma, Ma, and Mother have seen most of the kids several times this last week or two, had dinner with them at two different places, and watched a Christmas program. It has been absolutely wonderful! Each has been a special event for them!

What is considered a “special event” to you? Writer is going to address this subject soon, and she has received commentary and advice from several in The Hermitage. 

Have a good one!

 2 December 2025

Writer had intended to wrap up November a few days ago, however, life has a way of becoming a team of runaway horses and we all just went with it. Writer will randomly give a play-by-play of sorts and go from there. Suffice to say everyone has been MORE than busy.

First off, let it be known that as of 2PM Movie Buff is on report! We aren’t sure what she was thinking, OR IF she even was thinking! She knows we all enjoy having something in the background as we go about our various tasks. At 1PM she put on The Sound of Music. IF you haven’t seen it, which we are fairly sure everyone and their brother has, it is an amazing movie. Queen first saw it when it came out in 1965 when she was 10. We have watched it at least twice a year or more since then, and know all of the parts and songs. Nevertheless, we were unprepared for what happened after the intermission. Yes, movies had intermissions. We were having a scanty, late lunch and it was at the part where the children are distressed over Maria going back to the abbey without saying good-bye. They were singing “My Favorite Things” to cheer themselves up. When they heard her singing they were ALL EXCITED! Those of us in The Hermitage had water works and began weeping! DANG…IT…ALL!!! Some of us have been overly emotional for several months, and the dam broke, and that was it. Movie Buff is on report.

Our morning was a leftover from the past few days. A few weeks ago Employee received a form from social security about “Windfall Elimination Provision.” Most of us hate communicating the “new” way, and finally Correspondent decided to call. That was yesterday. She never got to talk to a real person, and after about 10 minutes heard, “Your wait time is 120 minutes. Thank you for calling,” and the line went dead. Frustration doesn’t even go far enough to cover her thoughts. We decided to call and make an appointment at the local social security office. Nope, that didn’t work either. SO this morning, Chauffeur took several of us to the office in the southern area of town about 7 miles from The Hermitage. Low and behold there were already about 20 others in a line waiting when we arrived at 8:30. Those in line around us obviously had similar experiences with the phone and online. This was confirmed as we stood there. At 9:45 security came out and said, “All of you without appointments move over here to the left.” THE WHOLE LINE moved over! HAHAHAHA!!! Comic relief. Eventually we all went our way. Employee and Financier worked on the issue with our form online. At the bottom was an area to write comments and additional information, up to 1000 characters. When we hit the enter button, an error message came up that we used characters we weren’t supposed to. Little do they know we filtered out a LOT of things. Nevertheless, we regrouped. AND the form was finally accepted.

Timekeeper was on the ball this time. She set the clocks the correct way, but several of us still woke up at the “usual” time, so we didn’t get to sleep in. Maybe next time, unless those higher up do away with this silliness. 

Athelete decided to participate in water aerobics with a couple of friends. HOLY COW! She was told it would just be an hour, but we were in the pool for at least two hours and later that night could FEEL exactly where those aerobics worked. Sitting turned into a gentle activity.

Secretary tried to make yet another medical appointment for a CT scan. She abhors these robot calls. Twenty-five minutes later she finally had an appointment at a place we’ve gone to six times in the last four months! WHY do they not keep the information from all of the other appointments??? She just doesn’t understand these things AT ALL! It sure doesn’t seem efficient. 

Grandmomma went downtown and watched the Veterans parade. Then to a Harvest Festival. Both were fun.

There was a BYU game here the first part of November that brought a LOT of extra visitors to Church. Disciple always finds this fun. She is also thankful the Temple opened back up after the cleaning and minor remodeling; new couches, chairs, rugs, flower arrangements, etc. It is absolutely beautiful! She loves being out of the world and into a celestial setting. It is SO peaceful and full of love. She sees old friends frequently, like Nita and Ruth, and one week saw a young man she hadn’t seen in about 17 years. He is now 24 and doing well.

As we sit out in The Doors in the morning, Weather Girl and Ornithologist are always excited by the activity. The weather out there in the mornings has dropped from upper 50’s to upper 40’s. It IS getting a little nippy. Several times it rained as we all sat out there, and a couple of times there were major thunderstorms! It is wonderful to sit out there and watch it rain, and the bird activity continues on in the rain. One morning two robin’s showed up on the birdbath! Photographer actually got a picture of them. AND the dove another morning. The hummingbirds are a little more difficult to get, but she succeeded. Gardener thinks of things she wants to do as she sits out there. First to get rid of ALL of the rocks back there. Then she thinks she wants to plant a huge garden. Well, huge for the backyard. Time will tell. Everyone is thrilled with the smells in the front yard. Many people have stopped to smell the roses, etc. The paper whites and alyssum are blooming too. She did mow the lawn for the last time this year last week. Then Decorator got out the Christmas lights and put them up. More aerobics…more pain. But the lights are lovely.

Inside The Hermitage and Carriage House there has been a lot of activity. Organizer brought in dozens of boxes of fabric and yarn. Seamstress, Quilter, Crocheter, Knitter and Crafter were VERY LEERY as to what might happen. To say they were ALL frustrated, overwhelmed, and heartbroken are understatements. They have had some of this fabric and yarn for over 50 years! Organizers voiced thoughts were, “IF YOU HAVEN’T USED IT IN 50 YEARS, WHEN ARE YOU GOING TO USE IT!” Then she said, “Pick ONLY what you really know you are going to do something with, and the rest goes. IF you don’t use it in a year, then what is left goes.” YIKES! She is one tough cookie. They ALL have been learning patience, sacrifice and the law of consecration. It is rough. Nevertheless, they pressed on and are almost done. One can actually get around in the Carriage House and almost all of the boxes are gone in the Scullery area. Focus has been a difficult thing for many of us. Chef went to make lunch one day and Scullery Maid decided to clean out the icebox, and lunch was forgotten. We go from room to room with projects, ideas and thoughts, only to forget everything we are doing. Then a walk is suggested to regroup and we are gone. Scullery Maid DID get the island cleaned off, AND ALL of the counters. It is impressive. AND she tells everyone, “Don’t dare put anything on them!!!” So far it is holding. Seamstress was able to stitch up 25 burp cloths and a Halloween quilt top for the Sisters in Service projects. 

Queen visited her oldest daughter and got her hair done! Apparently she looked like some sort of Fraggle. Everything is under control now and her hair is lovely. This is always an enjoyable thing for her, being with one of her children and visiting. Also, being pampered is wonderful.

Shopper made several trips to the marketplace. One day she made three trips! She was getting everything requested by Chef and Baker for a potluck BBQ at the Church, a Linger Longer, also at the Church, AND the BIG day! AND it was a BIG day! ALL of Queen’s children were there and THAT is the absolute MOST incredible thing. Chef made many things for the BIG day, and several trips back and forth to where the BIG dinner was to be. ALL of the fixings everyone made were wonderful. Queens youngest accepted an Oreo Pie at the door from Baker and he said, “I’ll just put that in my room.” HAHAHA!!! We think most of the 30+ guests were gone when he brought it out! 

One of the biggest deals going on was with Building Maintenance! With the work Organizer has done, the fireplace is now accessible and ready to be used. So far there have been three fires in it last week. Wonderful, peaceful, crackling, lovely fires. We just sit here in the dark watching the wood burn thinking and enjoying the warmth. There is something about a crackling fire that we love. AND no, there is no pyromaniac in The Hermitage. But we do love a fire in the fireplace and campfire. The heat hadn’t been turned on either. Building Maintenance thought she would see how long we could go without turning it on. Sunday, November 30^th, when we went to go to bed it was 58 degrees in the house. She tried to wait until December 1^st but it didn’t happen. Such is life in The Hermitage. Her next focus is the sinkhole out front. She phoned the Clark County Sewer, and they came out in 15 minutes. He determined it was not the sewer or water, but there is definitely a sinkhole under the sidewalk. He said to call Public Works. She did. They can’t do anything…HOA has to. Hmmm…Board Member is on this and we are all anxiously waiting to see what happens.

As we near the end of this year we have had a LOT of time to reflect on many things. We have thought of how incredibly blessed we are and the things we are thankful for, and not in any order they are: time, health, family, friends, home and the comforts within and without, multiple talents and gifts, knowledge, direction, love, abundance, joy, challenges, trials, patience, sacrifice, and so much more. And as we have crept into this next season, we are always SO thankful for the Savior. For His creations that we enjoy so much, for His incredible love, and for His ultimate sacrifice for us. Live and enjoy each day fully. Don’t wish them away. Don’t wait to use the good china. Don’t save things for another day. Be kind. Smile. Love and give hugs!  

 2 November 2025

In three days it will be the two-month mark since Chauffeur and Disciple were in the accident. Writer finds it interesting that we measure things from “events” or remember certain “events” to mark time. Worldly events, national events, space events such as the full moon, family events, personal events, seasonal events, catastrophic or disaster events, sports events, etc. Why do we do this? Does everyone do this? AND some people mark future events. “X” many days until Christmas, or a birthday, or? Some say, especially here, “I can’t wait until it gets colder!” or “This winter is SO cold! I can’t wait for summer!” Why are we not content to enjoy and live each day as if it were a special day? Those of us in The Hermitage have pondered life for the last two months in great detail. We listen to what others say, and work hard to keep our mouths shut. Each of us is incredibly special and every day is special. 

So, what’s been going on? Well…

Most of us have found ourselves out under The DOORS most mornings. The weather has been beautiful and between 56º and 65º. Disciple reads her scriptures and has a morning prayer, some play daily “brain” activity games, Organizer sees projects to be done, Gardener and Landscaper discuss things they are planning to do, and Ornithologist watches all of the birds and makes sure the feeders have something for them. The usual are hummingbirds, finches and doves. However, there were some new ones this morning. A few other types of finches and sparrows visited. No pigeons. The hawks and falcons must be taking those out. The DOORS have been quite a comfort. Just to sit and rock out in the cool of the morning to collect our thoughts and be at peace have been helpful. We absolutely love it. We even sat out there with a friend who moved several years ago and was in town. Candles were lit and it was wonderful to sit and visit. One morning produced an incredible thunderstorm. The entertainment was absolutely electrifying! We all enjoyed the phenomena. It was spectacular!

None of us are really sleeping well, not to mention the most vivid and sometimes disturbing dreams. Time Keeper DID set the clocks back, AND NOT forward this time, but most of us woke up at 5:45 this morning. While we tried to go back to sleep, most of us weren’t successful, and headed to The DOORS. We are still dealing with a few issues from September 5^th, a couple are physical, and then there is the mental part. Chauffeur makes sure everyone has their act together BEFORE venturing out. She doesn’t want to go unless there are several places to go for one outing. She isn’t about to go bounding about willy-nilly just because. She is looking for purpose, and it had better be good. 

Gardener has “tried” to be busy, but is cautious. She reseeded the front grass area and is excited that the new grass is already over an inch tall. She has pulled some weeds, and just sat, taking in the creations about her. She LOVES all of the plants and this time of year when it is cool and the smell of her roses greets her when she comes outside. She also noticed that several of the orchids are forming flower spikes already. She will be keeping an eye on them. AND all of the Naked Lady bulbs she transplanted ALL have leaves growing, preparing the bulbs for future blooming in the spring. 

After a two month closure for deep cleaning, a remodeling project, etc. The Temple is open again. Disciple was able to work there both Thursday and Friday this week. She has missed this opportunity greatly and was SO excited to be back with her Temple Sisters! The Sister Missionaries also invited her to go with them a couple of times to teach those with a desire to know more. This is always something she enjoys, as she has been blessed with a great testimony and a willingness to share it. She also enjoyed the Primary Program the children put on each year. They knew the songs exceptionally well and Disciples' eyes were wet through most of the program. 

Chef and Baker have started to do things again. At least more “involved” things than pb&j’s. We don’t mind those, and they are quick and easy, but they have been making favorites; chili dogs like those at Farrell’s Ice Cream Parlor, Caramelized Onions with hamburgers and mac and cheese, Tomato Basil soup with grilled cheese sandwiches. Chef has been experimenting with the outside grilling process. And she made grilled egg salad sandwiches and salads. Baker did something she hasn’t done in a LONG time! She made chocolate chip cookies! OH MY GOSH! They were/are amazing. Chef is preparing Italian Chicken for dinner tonight and we can’t wait. It has been SO long since she has made this, she’s forgotten just how to do it, BUT whatever she is cooking up will be great. All of us know that.

Board Member has been busy with H.O.A. trees, plans, etc. Not to mention the trials of board meetings. Well, executive board meetings that go awry. And Writer will just leave it alone, suffice to say, Board Member was LIVID when she arrived back at The Hermitage, but has since calmed down. Thankfully. She doesn’t get angry often, but… Then there was the 14 year old she and another Board Member tried to help. We tried, until he was dishonest. Then we were done. 

Grandmomma and Princess dressed up for the ward Trunk or Treat festivities, AND their Prince Charming showed up. They had a fun time and enjoyed the time together. 

JustServe Specialist and Seamstress made two quilt tops, and will be finishing a dozen or so burp cloths this week. 

Correspondent received calls from Queen’s brother’s… One in Texas and one in Oregon. She also wrote to her 90 year-old pen pal in England. She has been writing to her for about eight years. The letter came back marked insufficient address. Chauffeur took her to the main post office on Sunset WHERE she mailed the letter five days earlier. She asked when she mailed it IF it was okay and told yes. However, when it got back east, someone out there obviously didn't know their geography. BUT the teller took the yellow sticker off, stamped it in red and off it went. This has happened twice, BUT Correspondent writes out the United Kingdom instead of the UK after the first time. Sometimes we just shake our heads and move on. 

Organizer was put on alert a week ago. As we were all having breakfast in the kitchen, we heard a GREAT noise out in the carriage house! We pondered whether or not to check it out. After a few minutes passed, some of us decided to check it out with her. A WHOLE stack of boxes, etc. about 7’+, fell over! Thankfully the open box with all of the mason jars got stuck and none of them broke! Whew! While the boxes were accessible, she went through them, put things away or tossed things, AND the boxes. An odd accidental bonus. 

Volcano Seismologist is still watching with fascination the things that are going on in the Pacific Ring of Fire. Weather Girl has joined them, as well as Disciple. All of them are intrigued by how the planet is “healing” itself, and are pondering, as they sit and discuss things in The DOORS, as to what may be next?! Time will tell. 

Most of us haven’t been very productive in the last two months. While we know we are supposed to be resting, we felt it would be nice to have at least one productive day, so asked Disciple to pray for us to do just that. And yesterday we felt pretty productive. Gardener watered, Maid did dishes, Laundress washed and dried a load of white, a load of colors, AND folded and put it all away, Chamber Maid tidied the master bath and changed the sheets, Chef made macaroni salad, deviled eggs and her special salad dressing, Ornithologist filled feeders, Organizer dealt with the downed boxes, took a few things out to the carriage house and changed the calendar, Baker put the extra Halloween candy out of sight, and Correspondent and Mommy talked with the youngest and his lovely wife for a bit. Considering the last two months, we DID accomplish a LOT, but none of it was difficult. It was a boost mentally, and we ALL needed that boost to let us know we are healing AND doing better.

We have had MRI’s, CT scans, ultrasounds, and x-rays. The ultrasound was A.B. normal, so we are having another CT scan. At least we think that is what Scheduler has to do tomorrow. We aren’t sure. Too much is going on. 

 

What we DO know is this:

God and Jesus Christ LOVE each of us

Prayer WORKS; they are heard, and answered

Priesthood Blessings WORK

Family is important

Family and friends are still checking on us and we appreciate it

Healing takes time

A LOT is going on in the world; read, study, watch and prepare

Time and health are THE MOST valuable things

We are SO blessed, grateful, and loved